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<rss xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title>Speaking of JonBenet... - Latest Comments</title><link>http://speakingofjonbenet.disqus.com/</link><description>None</description><atom:link href="https://speakingofjonbenet.disqus.com/comments.rss" rel="self"></atom:link><language>en</language><lastBuildDate>Wed, 18 Jul 2018 01:02:24 -0000</lastBuildDate><item><title>Re: most unpleasant</title><link>http://speakingofjonbenet.com/2009/09/most-unpleasant.html#comment-3994331547</link><description>&lt;p&gt;FBI statistics confirms your opinions are lies!  71% of all murders committed in the home are committed by someone living in the home. 23% by someone the family kmows. Only 6% by a complete stranger.   Enough of your lying nonsense. Stupid dumb bitch!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Brian Close</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 18 Jul 2018 01:02:24 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: First cold case compensation statute</title><link>http://speakingofjonbenet.com/?p=2001#comment-355360980</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Individuals who suffer total and permanent disability as a result of the crime may qualify for   make a compensation claim. The Crime Victims’Compensation Program is supported through a legislative appropriation from the Compensation to Victims of Crime Fund. &lt;br&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.injury-compensation-zone.co.uk/compensation-claims-advice" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="http://www.injury-compensation-zone.co.uk/compensation-claims-advice"&gt;compensation claims advice&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">levan100</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 04 Nov 2011 01:12:51 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Break Emerging in JonBenet Ramsey Case?</title><link>http://speakingofjonbenet.com/?p=2824#comment-291080687</link><description>&lt;p&gt;it breaks my heart to think that could ever happen to someone to young and full of life. I was just a little girl my self when this happen and now have a little girl my self and it breaks my heart to a million piece because people just cant leave this family alone. i pulled up a web sit that just had really nasty things on it. why would any one post things like that, pwhy? it makes no sense what so ever. leave the family alone and let her soul be left alone. Her family has been through hell and back over and over again. and every year there is a new story out there on her. just let it go and let them heal with out people always having to say things. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">cwilson2086</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 19 Aug 2011 13:08:49 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: It is a woman&amp;#8217;s world. Why?</title><link>http://speakingofjonbenet.com/?p=3208#comment-239163547</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Producing pornography is certainly different form knowingly sending women and children into an ordeal, the details of which are familiar to the women. And money alone does not seem to be a sufficient explanation - but may be it is. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Fatal Promises</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 30 Jun 2011 20:09:46 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: It is a woman&amp;#8217;s world. Why?</title><link>http://speakingofjonbenet.com/?p=3208#comment-214677212</link><description>&lt;p&gt;It should not be a surprise that females will be active in the trafficking of other women. Money is money. &lt;br&gt;Many of the producers and distributors of pornography are female. It seems their lawyers are virtually always female. &lt;br&gt;For a while there clubs in Lebanon would allow their female "employees" to contact a few of their female acquaintances in Europe and the UK. If any of those friends showed up, they too would be drugged and have their signatures forged on contracts to work in the club. It was a way for the club to acquire a better quality product.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;One tv show recently featured a woman involved in smuggling of drugs and weapons as balking when it came to the smuggling of women for the sex trade. It was of course pure Hollywood. In the real world, a smuggler only considers the risks and the rewards of smuggling the merchandise, whatever that merchandise might be.&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">FoolsGold</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 31 May 2011 03:50:55 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: California Department of Corrections Misses Another One</title><link>http://speakingofjonbenet.com/?p=3181#comment-214205843</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I've no actual knowledge of the various classifications used in the world of corrections and parole. I have a feeling that there is pressure to over-classify in the same manner that other bureaucracies have an inherent tendency to over-classify everything.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Was this guy actually dangerous? Clearly! How many were likewise classified? In a parole officer any less over-worked with a file bearing an alarming category as one that is more routine?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Recently a Terrorist was extradited back to the USA. Yes. He was classified as a terrorist. What had he done? He and his live-in girlfriend went out for a night on the town and got a bit looped. The girl started packing her suitcase and the guy simply insisted on unpacking her bag. No violence, no threat of violence. This continued for awhile but eventually he got a gun and waved it around. He was drunk and in his own home. He never pointed it at his girlfriend or anyone else. He never threatened to harm her if she tried to leave. As often happens with guns and alcohol, the gun went off and his TV set didn't work too well after that. After being admitted to bail, he fled the country and was eventually arrested in Central America. In order to bolster its budget demands and inflate the ego of his officers, the sheriff classified this incident as a Terrorist Act. Forever the computers will classify the incident as terrorism and the poor, drunken slob who otherwise has been law abiding as a terrorist.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;With such aggressive use of that Rubber Stamp, the Sheriff has done more damage than any sheriff ever did with a Rubber Hose. How is this poor slob going to be treated when he is released on parole? How much time is going to be wasted by parole officers on this file when other files that truly merit such rubber stamps are also in the in-box?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;We create systems and we endow automatons who are rubber-stamp happy with great powers and then we have the audacity to complain when a young girl gets lured to an elementary school by some creepy pervert. Sure these two incidents took place on separate coasts and are totally unrelated. Yet it should be remembered that each burdens the system with senseless time-wasting clutter. So why did the California Department of Corrections have a "missed opportunity"? Why did the local school system have a "missed opportunity"? Probably because they were too busy with the equivalent of "terrorists" who shoot their own TV sets. So who is ultimately responsible? The sheriff that rubber stamped the file on a drunk who shot his own TV set, not just the parole officer who merely glanced at a file or the school janitor who left a door unlocked. The culture of the civil service is one of Loyal Lackeys who will watch a clock until they qualify for their pensions and will never rock the boat by insisting on doing a good job.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">FoolsGold</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 30 May 2011 07:43:50 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: KILLING FOR ATTENTION: MUNCHAUSEN BY PROXY</title><link>http://speakingofjonbenet.com/?p=3078#comment-187701814</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Excellent article, Laura. Fascinating.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Donna Carrick</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 19 Apr 2011 12:34:59 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: KILLING FOR ATTENTION: MUNCHAUSEN BY PROXY</title><link>http://speakingofjonbenet.com/?p=3078#comment-187701587</link><description>&lt;p&gt;What a great article, Laura. Fascinating reading.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Donna Carrick</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 19 Apr 2011 12:34:37 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: dream confession</title><link>http://speakingofjonbenet.com/?p=476#comment-158237110</link><description>&lt;p&gt;It beats The Confession, The Crush, Na Wewe and Wish 143. There's a rushed, breathless acceptance speech from Luke Matheny, who thanks everyone from NYU to his mother "who did craft services for the film". 1915 PST: Amy Adams and Jake Gyllenhaal are on ...&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/"> How to Get Pregnant Fast</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 01 Mar 2011 07:50:39 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Parents as accused: Aarushi murder&amp;#8217;s similarity with others</title><link>http://speakingofjonbenet.com/?p=3165#comment-153829518</link><description>&lt;p&gt;An intruder will not put a white bed sheet over the dead body of Aarushi. k. No intruder will lock the terrace door. l. An intruder is unlikely to take liquor inside the flat after committing a double murder when they know that parents are sleeping in ...&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">gold coast montessori</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 22 Feb 2011 03:44:49 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Stephen Singular on Lou Smit</title><link>http://speakingofjonbenet.com/?p=926#comment-145651442</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Harry, you read a book written by a disgraced cop whose point of view was that he was working with fools who could not distort the evidence the way he - Steve Thomas - could.  He respected almost no one and lied by omission or distortion of the facts of the case in order to make his theory form the basis of a book that would sell to a gullible public ignorant of the truth.  As a detective yourself, I am very surprised that you would look at a case in such a superficial manner and reach a conclusion that does not support the evidence in the case.  Perhaps you should look up Steve Thomas's deposition to discover how much of his theory and the contents of his book were admitted, under oath, as distortions.  &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Margoo</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 13 Feb 2011 09:41:50 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Parents as accused: Aarushi murder&amp;#8217;s similarity with others</title><link>http://speakingofjonbenet.com/?p=3165#comment-145414891</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I'm not familiar with the circumstances of the Indian case but am doubtful of any investigation wherein it takes an entire day for the police to discover a body on the balcony.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">FoolsGold</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 12 Feb 2011 15:42:05 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: dream confession</title><link>http://speakingofjonbenet.com/?p=476#comment-144700659</link><description>&lt;p&gt;But before I get to the project itself, there's a confession I have to make, and it is, I believe, a confession that just about every South African editor ...&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">seo company</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 11 Feb 2011 08:23:15 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Robin Sax and Darrell Goodwin on the Chasen Case</title><link>http://speakingofjonbenet.com/?p=3139#comment-110697145</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I think much of the problem relates to the tightly grouped shots. &lt;br&gt;It shows he can shoot, but it doesn't prove lack of rage. It might indicate a lack of road rage, but a frustrated car jacker or robber could just be both angry and a calm shooter.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I still tend to put my money on premeditated murder rather than some low-life's desperate measure to rob drivers and hope they don't drive off at the first sign of trouble.&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">FoolsGold</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 12 Dec 2010 10:25:17 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Robin Sax and Darrell Goodwin on the Chasen Case</title><link>http://speakingofjonbenet.com/?p=3139#comment-109745036</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Pedestrians and bicyclists stand out in Beverly Hills. A bicycle is not unknown as an escape vehicle but I am very doubtful in this case. I surely doubt any sort of random robbery rather than premeditated murder.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I would be doubtful of anyone who referred to this low-level blabbermouth who expected to get paid after doing the job as a professional. And I would certainly be interested in that initial tipster to the AMW show. It seems the tipster would have known that hot-heated dim-bulb of a suspect would certainly be "holding court in the street" when the cops approached him. &lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">FoolsGold</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 10 Dec 2010 02:46:30 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: KILLING FOR ATTENTION: MUNCHAUSEN BY PROXY</title><link>http://speakingofjonbenet.com/?p=3078#comment-104113672</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Laura - I have read about this disease and taught myself about it many years ago.  Your article was extremely interesting filled with the signs to look for if someone is caring for your loved ones.  It is interesting that a patient can aquire this name from their doctor - yet it could all relate to what a mother, guardian, etc. nurse - did to cause the trauma or poisoning etc.   Thanks for sharing this informative feature.  NOTE:  Discovery Channel Deadly Women... is this on every week?&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Nancy Duci Denofio</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 27 Nov 2010 14:48:26 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: KILLING FOR ATTENTION: MUNCHAUSEN BY PROXY</title><link>http://speakingofjonbenet.com/?p=3078#comment-98963190</link><description>&lt;p&gt;&amp;gt;Munchausen by Proxy is child abuse by health professionals...&lt;br&gt;Often a physician enhances his career with such allegations particularly when a mother tries to control treatment and force the doctor to provide evidence of his treatment choices. The simple declaration of Munchausen can indeed be viewed as child abuse.&lt;br&gt;Often hospitals have separate rooms set up with concealed cameras to catch actual Munchausen situations but often the allegations are false.&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">FoolsGold</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 18 Nov 2010 15:02:55 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Updated: Grayson Vaughn&amp;#8217;s best interest</title><link>http://speakingofjonbenet.com/?p=3064#comment-97378665</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Is Lin Wood still representing?  I haven't heard a word about it since the original article here.  &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">gorsmom3</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 15 Nov 2010 09:11:20 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Baby Vaughn: An Adopted Child&amp;#8217;s Perspective</title><link>http://speakingofjonbenet.com/?p=3023#comment-91563839</link><description>&lt;p&gt;THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT I SAID IN ANOTHER COMMENT. I said that there's poverty EVERYWHERE, and that I wasn't saying that Ohio and Kentucky are exclusively poor. Jesus Christ, people. READ and LISTEN. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">samanthaspiegel</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 29 Oct 2010 17:33:49 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Baby Vaughn: An Adopted Child&amp;#8217;s Perspective</title><link>http://speakingofjonbenet.com/?p=3023#comment-91563620</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Yeah, well if Grayon's biodad abused drugs and is violent then how will that influence Grayson? What I'm getting at here FOLKS is the fact of nature versus nurture. Nature-wise, perhaps Grayson is already prone to drug abuse. Nurture-wise, if he's raised by his biodad, I don't even want to think about what influences he may get. It makes me sick to my stomach.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">samanthaspiegel</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 29 Oct 2010 17:32:39 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Baby Vaughn: An Adopted Child&amp;#8217;s Perspective</title><link>http://speakingofjonbenet.com/?p=3023#comment-91563085</link><description>&lt;p&gt;How dare you tell me that my parents are manipulative and self-centered. They are anything BUT that. They are the most selfless people I know.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And NO, I went to meet my biological family in Ohio against my parents' wishes. They thought it would be extremely unhealthy for me to do so and they thought it would be emotionally unbearable.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I resent your saying that I am bragging and lacking of any compassion. You do NOT know me nor do I ever want you to get to know me. Your comments are simply a waste of my time. And just for your information, I still communicate with my biological family; I send them cards, call on their birthdays or to check-in, make plans to visit my niece and nephews. When I discovered from my grandmother that my biological mother was dying, I cried endlessly. I have a heart and you are in absolutely no position to say otherwise.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And thank you very much but I donate money to the Anti-Defamation League and do volunteer work when I can find the time considering I'm a full-time student in college.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;If my comments sound arrogant or pissed off, it's because YOUR absurd, hurtful comments have instigated such comments.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I truly do not appreciate you or your judgments. Good day to you!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">samanthaspiegel</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 29 Oct 2010 17:30:29 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Baby Vaughn: An Adopted Child&amp;#8217;s Perspective</title><link>http://speakingofjonbenet.com/?p=3023#comment-91559793</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Grayson is not adopted, he has been living with people who may want to adopt him but have not done so legally and therefore are holding him illegally - this has been confirmed repeatedly in court only for the Vaughns to appeal yet again and drag it out even longer. They are not thinking about what is best for Grayson - their behaviour in the media is evidence of that. The best interests of a child are served when they can stay with their biological family and since Grayson's father has ALWAYS wanted to raise him, that is where he belongs. The Vaughns are the villains in this piece as they have deliberately dragged this case out so they can use the excuse that they are the only family Grayson has ever known - not good enough. It is nice that you had a great life with your adoptive family; it is equally sad that your biological family is the trainwreck that you describe. The difference between you and me and Grayson is that he does not have to be adopted as he has a father who wants him, a father who is fighting for him, a father who has had to win the right to raise him - he will never have to know what it feels like to be adopted because he will be where he belongs, with his real family. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Adoptee72</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 29 Oct 2010 17:22:32 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Baby Vaughn: An Adopted Child&amp;#8217;s Perspective</title><link>http://speakingofjonbenet.com/?p=3023#comment-91550158</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Your adopters sound very manipulative and self-centered.  How dare they burden you, as a child, with so much negative information about your bio relatives?  They must be very insecure class snobs to feel the need to rub your face in their misfortune.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;And was it they who drug you to Ohio to parade you in front of your family for the manic-depressive parade at 16?  Absolutely vile.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Sounds like they got what they wanted, however; a grateful adoptee solider who crows about their upper-middle class privilege  and comparing it to the less fortunate.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;"For everyone to whom much is given, of him shall much be required." -- Luke 12:48&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;It doesn't sound like your adoptive parents expected much of you.  Your writing certainly doesn't reflect someone who does much for OTHERS, and is completely void of compassion for those who have been less fortunate than you.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I'm glad you hit the jackpot in the adoption lottery--not every adoptee is as "lucky".  But your incessant bragging betrays your assumed upbringing is quite gauche indeed.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Dan</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 29 Oct 2010 16:38:51 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Baby Vaughn: An Adopted Child&amp;#8217;s Perspective</title><link>http://speakingofjonbenet.com/?p=3023#comment-91541099</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Also, I am adopted and my nmom wasn't a hooker, doubtful that Grayson's dad is.  Your life may have been a worst case scenario, but not all of us come from such troubled people. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">joy_joy</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 29 Oct 2010 16:15:42 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Baby Vaughn: An Adopted Child&amp;#8217;s Perspective</title><link>http://speakingofjonbenet.com/?p=3023#comment-91534841</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I live in SF too and feel a deep sense of shame when I see my fellow denizens speak with such an embarrassing conceit.  You know there is a heck of a lot of poverty and suffering here as well. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">joy_joy</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 29 Oct 2010 16:02:42 -0000</pubDate></item></channel></rss>